taha & sameea – maryland walima photography

January 31, 2016 | Filed Under walima, wedding posts | 1 Comment 

shooting another photographer’s wedding is always a mix of excitement and pressure. the pressure, clearly, because your client actually knows what you’re doing; the excitement, though, because your client tends to know what works and makes it so much easier :) taha and i met years ago when i was just about to start my business, connecting through flickr and then a local photography group. so it was wonderful to hear from him about his wedding last summer and to meet his beautiful bride sameea, and more than the excitement or the pressure, it was truly an honor that he reached out to me to be the photographer for his walima. taha’s family chose one of the loveliest locations in howard county, belmont manor, and we had plenty of time in the late afternoon to traverse its sun-drenched grounds for portrait spots. afterwards, their reception was held in a tent outside the manor house.
thank you again, taha and sameea, for allowing me to be part of your day!



nadia & zain – mehndi and wedding

January 13, 2016 | Filed Under mehndi, wedding posts | Leave a Comment 

when a client plans their wedding with the kind of photos they want in mind, and those kind of photos happen to be the kind i love to shoot… that’s sort of a dream come true for me. and that was nadia’s lovely two-day wedding, both days set at locations and times to give us the ingredients for gorgeous images. we were blessed with stunning weather both days – such blue skies and golden light! – but it was nadia’s smart planning to choose such stunning locations as well: rockfield manor in bel air, maryland, for the mehndi, and deerfield golf club in newark, delware, for the wedding and reception.
i don’t suppose being drop-dead gorgeous and marrying such a tall, debonair brit was actually part of her plan for pretty pictures, but of course, they were the best part :D thank you so much, nadia and zain, for working with me and being patient with me while i made you guys walk around endlessly and stare into bright sunlight and all that. you are such a lovely couple and i pray that you are always blessed and happy together!
it was also my pleasure to work again with videographers ethan and shannen of wise films, who get as giddy about good light as i do :), as well as the lovely and super-talented makeup artist caitlyn meyer.
here are a few highlights from the mehndi and the wedding!



in memoriam

December 27, 2015 | Filed Under Uncategorized | 1 Comment 

a year ago today, i was driving with my family from maryland to raleigh to photograph a wedding. i’d had one the night before, as well, and we hit traffic on the way and i barely made it in time. but i was coming home – to the muslim community i grew up in – as i have many times now to photograph the weddings of some of the younger raleigh generation, the kid brothers and sisters of the ones i knew when i lived here.

so i was happy, and comfortable, and excited to get started. i didn’t know the two of them personally, though i’d known the groom’s family for years, and i’d met him at his sister’s wedding in 2011. but i met his bride for the first time when she came into his hotel room for their first look photos. she was breathtaking in her grace and youthful beauty – yusor had just turned 21 the day before – and when he saw her, deah put his hands to his mouth, over the happy grin he couldn’t hide. he hugged her close, then held her by the hand at a distance, to see her dress; she wiped tears from her eyes, smiling all the while.

when you’re photographing a wedding, you learn to watch for what draws your eye, so you can anticipate moments – sometimes it’s the way she turns her head over her shoulder, or the way the light hits their profiles, or the way he looks at his mother. every wedding, every couple, is different, so you’re always watching for what you should focus on. and what i noticed that night was a cataract of moments of love, centering on deah’s overflowing affection for his loved ones. i saw how he kissed his mother while they stood for a simple formal portrait together – how he looked at her first with a smile, then kissed her forehead. i saw the love swirling between him and yusor during their first look; i asked them to pose for a “fashion-mag” style portrait – no smiling, look fierce! – and they collapsed in laughter together after only a moment, deah turning toward her. i saw deah fist-bump a friend as he walked arm-in-arm with yusor past cheering guests to make their grand entrance. so i watched for more of it – when i followed deah and yusor around the room as they greeted their guests, i took photos as deah grabbed a guest’s head from behind and kissed his cheek, bursting with laughter, and pulled another into a bear hug, and posed for a grinning selfie with another. i saw the tenderness with which he led yusor by the hand back from the dance floor to the stage, or wrapped an arm around her waist as she stood on the stage above him, to whisper in her ear; i saw the steady, heart-on-sleeve gaze he gave his sister when she wept during her speech. and i noticed where it came from, when i saw deah’s father feeding him by hand, or standing behind the couple seated on the stage, and leaning down to kiss first his son’s cheek, then grinning at his new daughter-in-law before kissing her cheek as well. i saw deah’s parents dancing with each other, in joyous celebration, and his father hugging his sister close as the evening wound down; i saw yusor looking straight into deah’s eyes while he slid the ring onto her finger; i saw yusor’s mother’s loving smile as she danced with both her daughters; i saw the adoring looks of yusor’s young cousins watching her, and i saw how she danced with them, hugged them, posed for photos with them, returning their adoration full force.

i like the speeches i hear at my weddings, because it gives me a chance to learn a little more about the couple, to learn why they’re loved. i hear childhood stories, and – i’m this old, now – i imagine my own son’s wedding, imagine him as a young man with a past full of love and laughter, and a future full of promise. that night, i learned a little about deah’s and yusor’s childhoods of love and laughter, and the bright path that lay ahead of them together, one in which they were planning on lighting the path for others as well, and i remember hoping that i could make it to this point with my kids – to see them succeed in the ways that count most, in heart and spirit; that i could raise that kind of family.

that hope hasn’t changed at all… in fact, it’s more urgent than ever. a year ago tonight, i saw two families who lived and thrived in love, not only for each other, but for the communities and people they served with their lives. i don’t ever want to forget the lessons i learned, not from the murders of deah, yusor and razan, or the unmitigated hate that killed them, but from the lives of love they led and the promise of light they carried, which i began to learn on the day of their wedding. to love those whom God has given you to love, with all your heart; to give out of what He has provided you for the betterment of the world – what better weapon against hate, than one that makes it irrelevant? darkness is not equal to light.

support project lighthouse, in their names – please click to see how you can help further their true legacy. and please keep their families in your prayers.



modest lily – fashion line photography

December 7, 2015 | Filed Under fashion and clothing | Leave a Comment 

here’s a bit of a departure from my usual work! i’ve had the pleasure this year of working with a dear friend of mine who is in the process of realizing a business dream of her own – to start a fashionable, modest clothing line. tasnuva khan started modest lily just a few months ago, as a way to respond to her own concerns and the concerns of many of our friends about the difficulty of finding fashionable clothing – particularly maxi dresses with long sleeves – that is also comfortable to wear. and by comfortable, i mean both easy to wear, and easy to feel comfortably covered up in. tasnuva’s been working so hard and it’s wonderful to see her ideas and designs coming to fruition, and even better, to be able to wear them :) i’m particularly in love with the full-length lace dusters! so you’ll see me below in the burgundy one, over a new york & company dress, and also in the “blue midnight” dress. i’ve also got the super-comfy athletic wear and nowwwww i just need to start working out again, so i can use them!
if it had to be just tasnuva and i posing in these clothes, we wouldn’t have gotten very far – we had the invaluable help of models kola (also a makeup artist!), shima, uzma, marwa, and tess – you ladies made all of this possible and were so sweet to work with! and you’re all stinking gorgeous <3 please go check out modest lily for a unique and lovely addition to the growing body of independent, modest fashion designers across the globe!



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